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Chapter 19: That the Consent of Parents Is Not Required for the Essence of Matrimony

Our translation, from the Latin of the Opera Omnia (Paris: Vivès, 1870–74), vol. III, De Sacramento Matrimonii, the fifth general controversy on the sacraments. The Latin source text is public domain; this English rendering is released with the site. Scripture quotations follow Bellarmine's Vulgate citations, rendered in Douay-Rheims wording where he quotes exactly. Click “Show the Latin” for the original (raw OCR of the scan; scanning errors remain — the scan itself is the authority).

The first question, then, is whether the consent of parents is necessarily required for the Matrimony of children. For the adversaries contend that the Matrimony is void unless it is made with the consent of the parents; but because they do not altogether agree among themselves, we shall briefly relate their opinions. The first seems to have been Erasmus, who called the matter into controversy; for in the colloquy on Matrimony, in which he brings in Eubulus and Catharina speaking, he says thus: “Some define that to be a valid Matrimony which has been contracted between a youth and a girl by words of the present, even without the knowledge and against the will of the parents. But this dogma neither the sense of nature approves, nor the laws of the ancients, nor Moses himself, nor the teaching of the Gospel or the apostles.” So he.

Martin Luther, in the sermon on Matrimony, speaks with a distinction: for either offspring has been born of a marriage contracted without the consent of the parents, or has not yet been born. If it has been born, the Matrimony ought to be firm; if it has not yet been born, it will be in the power of the parents to confirm or to make void the marriage. Philip teaches the same in the Commonplaces, under the title on marriage.

Bucer, on chapter 19 of Matthew, wishes the civil laws to be called back into use, by which he says it is provided that the marriages of children be not valid without the consent of the father, or grandfather, or great-grandfather. John Brenz, in the catechism, expounding the fourth commandment: if a Matrimony has been celebrated without the consent of the parents, he orders it to be referred to the magistrate, and by his judgement to be confirmed or made void. For although it is a general rule that children ought to enter marriages with the consent of their parents, yet there are some cases in which it is lawful to do otherwise. Martin Chemnitz comes down to the same opinion, in the second part of the Examination of the Council of Trent, page 1273 and following; where yet he wrongly confuses the marriages of children without the consent of parents with clandestine marriages: for it can be that a Matrimony is clandestine and yet contracted with the consent of the parents; and on the contrary that it is not clandestine, but public and before the Church, and yet celebrated without the knowledge and against the will of the parents. John Calvin, book 4 of the Institutes, chapter 19, the last section, enumerating the laws of the Roman pontiffs about Matrimony which are (as he himself says) either impious toward God or most unjust toward men, puts this in the first place: “Such are,” he says, “that marriages contracted between young people without the command of their parents remain firm and valid.” So these.

But the Catholic doctors are so far from doubting that those marriages are firm and valid that they have never numbered the lack of paternal consent among the impediments of Matrimony; and lately the Council of Trent, session 24, in the decree on clandestine marriages, laid down in these words: “The holy synod condemns with anathema those who falsely affirm that marriages contracted by children under their parents' power without the consent of the parents are void, and that parents can make them valid or void.” But that the question may be explained more briefly and easily, we shall lay down some propositions.

First proposition: By the consent of the parents alone Matrimony cannot be celebrated between children; and therefore a father cannot compel a son to marriage. Philip admits this proposition in the place noted, nor do the others deny it.

It is proved, first, by the example of divine Scripture. For in Genesis, chapter 24, when the father and brother of Rebecca had treated of her Matrimony with the steward of Abraham, who was asking for her as wife for Abraham's son, they said: “Let us call the maid, and ask her will.”

Second, it is plain from the canon law: the canon Sufficiat, cause 27, question 2; the canon Ubi non est, cause 30, question 2; the chapter Tuas dudum, on the betrothed of two; and the only canon on the espousal of those under age, in the Sext.

Third, it is plain from reason. For the consent of those is necessarily required who pronounce the form of Matrimony; for those words would be false, “I take thee for mine,” “I take thee for mine,” if the consent of those pronouncing them were lacking. But those who contract pronounce the form themselves; their consent, therefore, is necessarily required.

Then, marriage is the highest degree of friendship, according to the Philosopher; it is therefore against the nature of marriage that it be contracted between the unwilling.

Second proposition: The consent of the children, even if it is alone, suffices to make a firm and valid Matrimony; nor can such a Matrimony be made void by the parents or the magistrate. This is against Erasmus and the Lutherans.

It is proved, first, by examples of divine Scripture. In Genesis 26 Esau took two wives, who both had offended the mind of Isaac and Rebecca his parents; he therefore took them against his parents' will. And again, in chapter 28, he took a third, against the will of the same parents; and yet Isaac did not make those marriages void, and Scripture simply calls wives those who had been so taken. Then Jacob, Genesis 29 and 30, took one wife according to the counsel of his parents; but the other three, and especially the two handmaids, he took with his parents altogether unaware; and yet Jacob, a most holy patriarch, would not have done it if he had believed the consent of the parents to be necessary. Tobias too, as we read in chapter 7 of the book of Tobias, took a wife in another region, his parents not knowing; and yet the angel Raphael, who was with him, did not admonish him to wait for his parents' consent, nor did he himself think it a scruple to do this without his parents' knowledge.

Second, it is proved from the canon law. For in the chapter Cum virum, on regulars, Clement III speaks thus of a marriageable girl: “Then,” he says, “because she has free will, she is not compelled to follow the will of her parents in the choice of her state.” And to this belongs what St. Ambrose says in the book On Virgins: “She to whom it is lawful to choose a husband, is it not lawful for her to prefer God?” Where he teaches that it is lawful for a virgin girl, even against her father's will, to vow continence to God, as it is lawful for the same girl to choose a husband. And the same Ambrose, in letter 43 to Sysinnius, who was indignant with his son because he had taken a wife without his counsel, says indeed that some fault was committed by that son, yet shows plainly enough that the Matrimony was valid, and praises Sysinnius because he readily pardoned his son's fault.

Third, it is proved by reason. In such a marriage nothing of those things is lacking which belong to the essence of Matrimony; it will therefore be a true and valid, and so insoluble, Matrimony. The antecedent is proved. For the consent of the contracting parties is present, and so the intention of the minister; the matter is present, which is persons fit for Matrimony; the form is present, that is, the words or signs of mutual consent; what then is lacking? They will say: the consent is not full and sufficient; for since children are in the power of their parents, they cannot establish anything in so grave a matter without the parents' leave. I answer: either the consent of the children is not full because the use of free will is lacking, or because maturity of counsel is lacking, or because children are so subject to their parents that they have no right to dispose of the state of their life. The first cannot be said, because then there would be no marriage even with the consent of the parents. Nor can the second be said. For to contract Matrimony maturity of counsel is not necessarily required, but only the use of free will, such as is also required for sinning, for meriting, for vowing, and so on; otherwise an occasion would be given of breaking marriages everywhere. Wherefore the canons require only puberty in those contracting. Then it often happens that one who still has parents is a man of more mature counsel than many others who have been bereaved of parents and other elders; if, then, these latter can choose a wife without anyone else's counsel, why not also those former, who, as we now suppose, are more prudent than these? But neither can the third be said. For a son, although he owes obedience and reverence to his father, yet when he has the use of free will is free and his own master, no less than the father, in the things which belong to the state of life. Wherefore he may indeed sin while he does not follow his father's direction in choosing a state, yet what he does will be valid and firm, because he disposed of what was his own, not of another's. Moreover, the theologians rightly teach that the marriage of slaves against the will of their masters is firm and valid; and it is had in the canon law, chapter 1, on the marriage of slaves: for the law of nations, by which slavery was introduced, could not take away what the law of nature granted. Therefore much more will the marriage of children against the will of their parents be valid; for the subjection of slaves to a master is greater than that of children to parents. The argument is confirmed from the testimony of the adversaries. For Luther and Melanchthon contend that a Matrimony of children contracted against the will of the parents, if it has been consummated by carnal union, can no longer be made void by the parents.

But that carnal union does not make the son more prudent, nor does it exempt him from his father's power; therefore either the Matrimony contracted before union could not be made void by the parents, or, if it could then, it will be able to be after union too; which they deny. But, says Melanchthon, when the Matrimony is consummated, it is no longer a question of the future but of the present, and injury would be done to the spouse if she were deserted after violation. But a Matrimony contracted by words of the present is also not a future but a present marriage, and the conjugal gift has already been made; by that reason, then, no Matrimony could be made void, whether consummated or not consummated. Moreover, a Matrimony consummated against the will of the parents was either consummated by right or not. If consummated by right, then it was also contracted by right before the consummation; for a Matrimony not contracted by right cannot be consummated by right; therefore even before consummation the Matrimony contracted against the will of the parents was valid and firm. But if it was not consummated by right, it can by right be made void after the consummation, nor will any injury be done to the spouse; for he does injury to no one who uses his right. Otherwise, if that reason had force universally, no marriages could be broken after consummation, even though contracted by no right, nay against all rights. And by the same reason a union brought about by the defilement of a virgin could not be broken; the contrary of which yet we read in Exodus 22, where he who has seduced a virgin betrothed to no one is compelled to have her as wife if her father will give her, but if not, is compelled at least to give her a dowry.

Third proposition: Children sin when, without a just and reasonable cause, they contract marriages without the knowledge or against the will of their parents. I said “without a just and reasonable cause,” because it can sometimes be that a son does not sin in taking a wife without his father's knowledge, because, namely, he believes that his father will hold it valid; and in this way Tobias took a wife without his father's knowledge. It can also be that a son does not sin in taking a wife against his father's will: as if the father unjustly forbids his son marriage, or, for the sake of a greater dowry, will give him only an unworthy woman, or even a heretic. Yet for the most part children sin when they do not follow their parents' will in this matter: for for the most part parents are more prudent, nor is there danger that they will wish their children ill provided for, since they love them naturally. Moreover, it belongs to parents to provide for their children and to direct them; therefore it belongs to children to allow themselves to be ruled and led by their parents. And we have clear examples and testimonies in the Scriptures. In Genesis, chapter 24, Isaac took the wife whom his father gave him, and Rebecca his wife followed her father’s counsel in that matter; disputing of which, Ambrose, book 1 On Abraham, the last chapter, brings much to this purpose, and among other things praises the verses of Euripides, who brings in a virgin speaking thus: “My father will take on the care of my betrothal; for this is not mine.” And in letter 43 to Sysinnius he says that he was justly indignant that his son had wished to take a wife without his knowledge. In Exodus 34 and Deuteronomy 7 the precept about the Matrimony of children is given to the parents rather than to the children, namely that they be not joined with the Chanaanites: “Thy daughter thou shalt not give to his son, nor take his daughter for thy son.” And Isaac openly commanded his son Jacob not to take a wife of the daughters of Chanaan, but one of the daughters of Laban; which he also did obediently, Genesis 28. You will say: if a father can command his son to take a wife, and such a wife, then he can compel him to take or not to take a wife; which is against the first proposition. I answer: a father can be understood to be said to compel his son to Matrimony in three ways. First, that the father compel a son plainly dissenting and unwilling to live with some woman whom he will have to be his wife; and this cannot be done, and if it is done, the Matrimony is null. And this is properly what was asserted in the first proposition. Second, that he compel the son to assent by bringing on the fear of death, or another fear that falls on a steadfast man; and this too is by no means lawful for the father. Nor would that Matrimony be valid: since for Matrimony not only consent, but the freest consent of the contracting parties, is required, since Matrimony is a perpetual bond and by its nature requires good will and friendship, and that the highest. Third, that he induce the son to assent by commanding with paternal authority, when in truth it is good for the son, so that according to right reason he cannot dissent; and this is lawful for the father, and the son is bound to obey. Just as, when it is good for the son to eat such or such a food, and to abstain from such or such, the parent can command, and the son is bound to obey. And although this too is in its way to compel, and to bring on the fear of eternal death, yet that Matrimony would not therefore be called compelled, nor would it be void; because that fear of hell is not properly brought on in order that he take a wife, but follows of itself from the transgression of the precept.

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CAPIT  XIX. 
Non  rcqniri  ad  esscnliam  Malrimonii, 
consensnm  parenlum. 
Prima  igilur  quacslio  csl,an  rcquiratur  ncccssa- 
rio  ad  Blatrimonium  liIioriim,consensus  parenlum. 
Conlcndiint  cnim  advcrsarii,  Malrimonium  irrilnm 
csse,  nisi  lial  cum  parcnlum  consensu:  sed  tiuia 
non  omnino  inler  so  conveniunt,  eorum  senlcnlias 
brcviler  refcromns.Primus  videlur  fuisse  Erasriius, 
qiii  roin  in  conlroversiam  rovocavil;  nam  in  collo- 
quio  dc  MaUiinonio,  in  quo  Kubnlura  el  Calliari- 
nam  loqutMilos  induoil,  sic  ait:  Definiiint  quidarii 
Malrimoninm  csscralmn,  quodinsciisxiut  cliam 
inviiis  parcnlibus.  inlcr  jmerum  ct  pucllam  per 
verba  de  praescnti  contraclum  cst.  Alqui  isliuC 
dofjrna  nec  nalurac  sensus  apjnobalMec  velerum 
lego.s,  ncc  illoyses  ipse.  nec  evangclica,  aut  apo- 
sloiica  docirina.  llaoc  illc. 
Marliiuis  Lulbcrus  in  serm.  de  Malrimonio,  cum 
dislinclione  loquitur:  nam  aut  nata  esl  proles  ex 
conjugio  conlraclo  sine  parentum  conscnsu,  aut 
nondum  csl  nala.  Si  nala  est ,  firmum  esse  dcbet 
Malrimonium:  si  nondum  cst  nata,in  poleslale  pa- 
rcnlum  erit,  confirmare,  vel  irrilare  conjugiura.  I- 
dcm  docel  Pbilii)pus  in  locis,  til.  de  conjugio. 
Ducerus  in  cap.lO,  Matlbaei  revocari  optal  in  u- 
suin  legcs  civilcs,  quibus  id  caveri  dicit,nc  nuptiae 
liliorum  ralac  sinlsine  consensu  palris,aul  avi.aut 
proavi,  Joannes  Brentius  in  calecliismo,  expoiiens 
quarlum  |)raeccpUiin;  si  Malrimonium  sine  paien- 
liiiii  consensu,  celcbralum  sit,  jobel  id  referri  ad 
luagislralum,  alqiic  ejus  judicio  connrmandiim, 
vel  irrilandum  esse,  Nam  clianisi  gcncralis  rogula 
sit,quodlibcridebeanlinireconjugiacumi^arcnium 
conscnsu,lamcn  nonnulli  siint  casus.in  quibus  licet 
eliam  secus  agere.  In  eandcm  senlenliam  descen- 
dit  .Marlinus  Kcmnilius  in  2,  parl,  exam.  concilii 
Iridenlini  pagina  127.'».  el  sequonlibus,  ubi  lamen 
non  rccle  confiindil  Malrimonia  liliorum  sinc  con- 
sonsu  parenl-ura,  cum  Matrimoniis  clandeslinis/po- 
lcsl  enim  lieri  ul  Malrimonium  silclandeslinum,  el 
lamen  cum  parenlum  consensu  conlracluin  :  et 
conlra  ul  non  sil  clandesUnum,sed  publicum.el  co- 
ram  Ecclesia,  cl  lamen  insciis,  el  invilis  parcnli- 
bus  celcbralum;  Joanncs  Calvinus  lib,  4.  inslilut. 
cap.  19.  §  nll.  cnumerans  Icges  ponlificum  roma- 
norum  d(3  Malrimonio(ul  ipse  loquilur)  vcl  in  Dcum 
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LIHEi;  PRIMUS                                                               82.'; 
iinpias,  Ycl  in  homincs  iniquissimas,  primo  loco  Secunrlo  probiiliir  ox  jnrc  cnnonico.  \ani  cnpil. 
isliim  ponil:  Qiiulcs  sunt,  imiuil,  nl  coiijiiQia  ui-  Cumvirum,  do,  riiuularibus,  ita  loqiiilur  r.lomons 
tcr  adolescenlulos  ,  parentum,  injussu  conlra-  IIl.(lcpuoll;i  nuhili:  Tunc,  inquil,  quia  libcvum 
cla,  firma,  ralaquc  mancant.  llacc  illi.  Calholici  habctarbilrium.in  clcctionc  proposili,  parentum 
vero  doclorcs  adco  non  duhilanl  ea  Hlalrimonii  fir-  scqui  non  cocjitur  volunlalem.    El  huc  pcrlinct 
ma  oc  rnla  essc.    ul  neque  unquam   iiilor  impedi-  quod  ait  s.  Amhrosius  in  libro  dc  virginihus:  CAii 
mcnla  Malrimonii  uumcrnvcrinl  diifectum  coiison-  licct,  inquit ,  marilum  cligcre.  non  licct  Deum 
suspalcrni,  cl  nupcr  coucilium  Irideiiliuum  sess.  pracfcrre?  uhl  i]occl  licere  puellae  virgiui,  palre 
24.  in  decrelo  de  Malrimoniis  clandeslinis,  in  hacc  eliam  invito.  conlinontiam  Deo  vovere:  slcul  eidcm 
verha  stalueril:Scnic/a  synodus  analhcmatc  dam-  licel  viruiii  oligere.Et  idcm  .Vinhrosius  in  epist.  43. 
nat  eos,  qui  falso  affLrmat  Malrimonia  a  [iliisfa-  ad  Sysiunium,    qui   tilio  indignnbatur,   quod  sinc 
milias  sine  consensu  2)cirentum  contracta,  irrita  suo  consilio  uxorom  duxissid,  dicil,   culpam  ali- 
ossc,  et  parcntcs  c.a  rata,  vel  irrita  faccre  posse.  quam  ab  co  tilio  admissam.lnmen.  sntis  aporte  in- 
Sed  ulhrevius,  et  facilius  quaeslio  cxplicclur,  pro-  dicnl,Mntrimonium  fiiisso  ralum.ol  Sysinniiim  Inu- 
posi-tlones  aliquol  slaUiemus.  dnl.quod  facile  culpam  ignovciil  (ilio. 
Prima  proposilio:  Solo  conscnsu  parent um,  Ma-  Tertio  probatur  rationc.In  ejusmodi  conjugio  ni- 
irimoniumintcrfilioscclcbrarinonpotcst-.ctideo  hil  eoriim  decst,  qune  ad   essenliain  Mntrimonii 
71071  potcst  patcr  fdium  ad  conjugium  cogere  .  perlinent;  veruin  igilur   ot  raluin,   alquc  ndeo  in- 
llanc  proposilionem  admillit  Philippus  loco  notato,  solubilc  Malriraonio  eril.ProhaUir  anleccdens.IVnm 
nequc  alii  eam  negant.  conscnsus  conlrahenlium  adest,  et  proindc  inlcii- 
Prohalur  primo  e.xcmplo  Scriplurae  divinae.IXam  tjo  minislri;  adesl  maleria,  quao  sunl  porsonne  ad 
in  Genosi  cap.  24.  cum  pnler  el  frnlcr  lichcccac  dc  Matriuioniiim  idoneao.adesl  forma,  idesl.vcrha  sou 
.Matrimonio  ejus  cum  procuratorc  Ahrahae,qui  eam  signa  mului  consensus:  quid  igilur  decst?  Dicenl, 
in  uxoroiii  filio  Ahrahne   pelohnl,   Iraclnsscnl,   di-  oo'nsensus  non  est  pleiius   ac  sufficicns;  nam  cuni 
.\erunl:  Vocemurf  imcllam,  ct  inqairamu.i  cjus  vo-  filii  sint  in  potestnlc  pnrcnlum,  nou  possunt  in  rc 
luntatcm.                                                            ^  lara  gravi  sinc  parenlum  faoiillalc  ali^iuid  couslilu- 
Sccundo  palet  ox  jurc  cauonico,  cnn.  Sufficiat,  erc.Vvespondoo:  Vel  consensus  filiorum   non  csl 
27.  q.  2.  can.  Ubi  non  cst,  30.  qu.  2.   Cap.   Tuas  plonus,  quia  dcest  usus  lihcri  arhilrii.vel  quia  de- 
dudum,  de  sponsa  duorum;  et  can.  unico,  dc  de-  est  consilii  maluritas,  vcl  quia  ila  suhjiciiinUir  filii 
sponsalionc  impubcrum  in  VI.  parcnlihus,  ut  jus  non  hnhoant  de  slalu  vilnc  suae 
Tertio  patet  ralionem.  Nnm  illornm  necessario  disponendi.  Primnm  dioi  non  poiosl.  quia  lunc  et- 
consensus  requirilur,  qui  Mnlrimonii  formam   pro-  jjim  cum  pnronlum  consonsu,  conjagiuin  uou  es- 
nuncianl:  essenl  enim  falsa  verba  illa:  Ego  et  acci-  sef.  Nec  Scoundum  dici  polest.  Nain'  nd  Malrimo- 
pio  inmcam,  Ego  teaccipioin  meum,  si  consen-  niiim  contrnliendum  non  cxigilur  necessario  con- 
sus  pronuncianlium  ea  voiba  dcessot.  Al  forinam  silii  mnliiritas,  sed  solum  usus  lihcri  arbilrii,  qua- 
proiiunciant  ipsi  qui  conlrnhunl;   ipsorum  igiUir  Hs  oliam  roqiiiritur  ad  peccandum,  ad  mcrondum. 
consensus  necessario  requirilur.  nd  vovendum  olc.  alioqiii  darelur  occasio  Matrimo- 
Dcinde  conjugium  est  summus  nmiciliac  gradus,  „ia  passim  dirimendi.  Ouocirca  solam  puhortalom 
secundum  philosophum  ;  rcpugnnt  igitur  nalurac  jn  conlrahentibus  caiiones  exigiinl.   Deiiule  sacpe 
conjugii,  ut  conlrnhnlur  inler  invitos.  pccidit,  ul  qiii  pnrenlos  ndhuchabot,  sit  vlr  maUi 
Secunda  proposilio:  Filiorumconscnsus  ctiam-  rioris  consilii,  quam  inuUi  alii,    qui   paronlihus  a- 
si  solus  sit,  ad  Matrimonium  firmum  ac  ratuni  ijisque  mnjoribus  orlinli  suiil;  si  igiliir  lii  |)osU;rio- 
efjiciendum  sufflcil;  nec  polcsl  a  parcntilms,  vcl  j-os  uxorem  eligore  possunl,sine  uiliiis  nlloriuscou- 
magistratu  ejusmodiMalriinoniumirrilariA\i\cc  silio,  eur  non  eliam  priores  illi.   qui  siiiit  his.  ul 
esl  eoulra  Krasmum  et  Lulliorauos.  ja,„    pouimus.   prudcnlioros?  Sod  lUMpio  Terliiim 
Prohalur   priiiio  excmplis  Scriplurne  diviiine.  ■,ii(;i  polest.  INnm  filiiis  licet  pnlri  ohedienliam  et 
Genesi  20.  Esau  duxil  uxorcs  duas,   quae  niiihae  rovorenliam  dohcal.  larncn  qiiando  usum  lihcri  ar- 
oITendoraiil  ariinuim  Isanc  ol  Rohoccne  paronlum  i,ii,-ii  habct,  liber  est,  et  sui  .jmis.non  minusquam 
ejus:  proiiidc  invilis  parenlibus  ens  nccopil.  VA  rur-  pnler.  in  his  (piae  ad  slaliiin  vilac  porliMonl.  Quare 
sus  cap.  28.  accopit  lerliam,  conlra  eorundem  pa-  polorit  quidein  poooaro,  dum  iioii  seijuilur  palris 
renlum  voliintatom;   nec  lamcn  Isaac  ea  conjugia  direclionem  in  slalii  eligendo,   lamen   quod  facil, 
irrilavil.ot  Scriplura  simpliciler  uxores  vocnl.qnnc  rnlum  et  firmiim  eril,  quia  de  re  sua.nou  i\c  aliiMia 
ita  duclae  fueranl.  Deiiidc  Jacob  Genos.  2{).  el  30.  disposuil.Praelereaconjugiumscrvorum  invilis  Do- 
du.\iluxorcm  unam  juxlaconsilium  parentum  siio-  minis.  firmum  ac  ratum  esse,    Iheologi  rcctc  do- 
rum;  sed    alias  Iros,  et  praesortim  duas   anoillns  cenl;  el  hnholur  in  jiire  cnnonico.  cap.  1.  de  con- 
duxil,  pnrenlihus  oinnino  iusciis,  ncc  Ininon  .lacoh  jn-rio  sorvoriim:  non  ouim  jiis  goulium,  qiio  servi- 
sanclissimus  palriarcha   id  fecissel,  si  crodidissol  ms  iulroducta  osl,  id  i>oUiii  aolorre  (iiiod  ,ius  luilii- 
neccssarium    esso   consensum   parenlum.   Tohias  rae  conoessit.  Ergo  mullo  mngis  con.iiigium   filio- 
qiioqiie,  ul  logimns  oap.  7.  lihri   Toliiao,    uxorem  rum  inviiis  pnroniihiis  cril  r;dum:iiiaior  oiiim  siib- 
duxit  in  aliiuia  regione,    pnronlihiis  igiioranlihus:  jeclio  esl  sorvorum  ad  Dominuin.ipinm  filiorum  ad 
ncc  lainen  angelus  Ha])ha(;I,  qiii    ciiiii    ipso   erat,  p:u-ontos.  Confirmaliir  nrgumenUim   o\  lcslimoiilo 
oiim  admonuil,  ut  pareiiUim  coiiscusum  expeclarel,  advorsarioriim.  >;im  I.ullHirus  et  MidiincliUm  oon- 
neqiic  ipsc  rcliijioiii  sibi  diixil,    iiisciis  parcntihus  lendiinl,.  Malrimouiiim  filiorum   invilis  parenlihus 
id  faccre.  conlr;ielimi,  si  per  copulam  oarualcui  cousumma- 
82ii 
l)K  SACIIAMI-MO  .MATIIIMO.MI 
Uim  sil.  lUMi  possc  aiiipliu.s  a  parenliluis  iirrilari. 
Al  oopula  illa  carnalis  non  lacil  liliuin   prudiMi- 
liorom,  ium|uo  tvxiiiiit  a  palria  polestaloKM^io  (;liain 
•uile  copulam  Hlalrimoniuiii  conlraclum  a  '^parcnli- 
bus  irrilari  non  iiolcral.  vol  si  lunc  polcrai,  cliam 
post  copulam  pi.UMil.  (|uoil  ipsi   ncjjanl,   Scd,  in- 
(|uil  Mclanclilhon,  qiiamio  JHalrinwnium  r.s/  con- 
sumniatuni,  non  ainpUus  afiilur  de  fuluro.  scd 
dc  ]'racsrnti:  ct  injuria  ficrcl  conjiHii.iii  post  vio- 
lationcm  dcscrcrctur.  Al  eliam  MaUiinoiiiom  con- 
Iraclum  por  vcrba  do  praesenli,  non   esl  fulurum, 
sed  praescns  conjuijlum.  el  donalio  conjut,'a!is  jam 
piMacta  esl;  illa  ij^Mlur  ralione  iioii  poleril   irrilari 
3IaIrimonium  ulluin.  sivc  consummalum,  sivc  non 
consummaIum.rrai'Iorea  Malrimonium  consumma- 
tum  invitis  paronlibus,  vcl  jure  consummatum  esl, 
vei  non.Si  jurc  coiisummatum;ergo  cl  jurc  conlra- 
clum  anlc  consummalionem:  non  cnim  jurc  con- 
summari  polesl  .)IaIrimonium:non  jure  conlraclum; 
trgo  eliam   anle  consumuialioncm  Malrimonium 
invitis  parenlibus  conlraclum,    ratum  eral  ac  llr- 
mum.  Sin  aulein  non  jurc  consuinmalum  fuit,  jure 
posl  consummalioncui  irrilari  poleril,   ncquc  ulla 
liel  injuria  conjugi:  non  enim  ulli   racil  injuriam, 
qui  ulilur  jurc  suo.  Alioqui  si  ista  latio  universe 
vim  baberet,  non  posscnl  diriini  Matrimonia   ulla 
posl  consummatioucm,  quamvis  nullo  jurc,  immo 
trimonio  lilioruin,  parenlii)us  poliiis  dalur,  (juam 
tiliis.  iu>  jiingiMiIur  vidclicol  cum  Oliananacis:  Fi- 
liain  tuam  noii  dahis  IHio  cjus;  ncx  fdiani  iUius 
accipics  lUio  tuo,  Kl  Isaac  apertc  jussii  lilio  suo 
.lacob.  ul  non  accipcrct  uxorem  dc  liliabus  Palesli- 
noiiiin.  sed  aliipiam  ex  liliabus  l,abaii:  quod  elillo 
obedieuler  fccil.  ricnes.  2S.  Diccs,  si  potcst  pater 
lilio  imperarc,  ul  uxorem,  et  lalein  uxorein  ducal; 
crgo  polcsl  cogere,  iil  ducal.  vcl  non  ducal  uxo- 
riMU.  (piod  csl  conlra  primam  piopositionem.  Ue- 
spon(l(M):Tribus  modis  polesl  intelligi,ul  paler  di- 
calnr  liluim  cogerc  ad  Malriiiioiiiiiin.  Primo:  Ul  fi- 
liuin  plaiie  (lissenli(MiIeiii  cl  invilum  palcr  cogal 
viverc  cum  aliqua,  quam  velil  ejus  uxorcm  ess(!: 
cl  lioc  non  potesl  fieri,  el  si  liat,  Matrimonium  cst 
nullum.  Et  lioc  propric  in  prim;i  proposilione  as- 
serliim  csl.  Scciindo:  Ul  filium  asscntiri  cogat,  in- 
jeclo  melu  niorlis,  aut  alio,  cadenlc  in  constantein 
virum;  cl  boc  cliam  palri  niinime  licct.  Nequc  Ma- 
trimonium  illud  cssct  ralum:  quoniam  od  Malrimo- 
niuin  non  solum  conscnsus,  scd  etiam  consensus 
libcrrimus  conlralienlium  cxigiliir,  cuin  Matrimo- 
nium  sit  vinculum  pcrpeluum,  cl  nalura  sua  bcnc- 
voIiMitiam  et  amiciliam,  oamque  summain  requirat. 
Terlio:  Ul  filium  ad  assenliendum  inducat,  aucto- 
rilalc  palcrna  imperando,  quando  rcvera  filio  id 
conduciI,iIa  ul  secundum  rectam  rationem  dissen- 
conlra  omnia  jura  conlracla.  El  cadcm  ralione,per  ijrc  non  possil:  el  lioc  palri  licet,  el  rilius  obedire 
sliiprum  virgini  illiiluui  ,  non  possel  dirimi  illa  icnelur.  Quemadmodum  eliain  cum  filio  expedit 
conjunctio;  cujus  tamen  corararium  lcgimus  in  E-  comedere  talein,  aut  lalcm  cibum,  ct  a  lali,vel  lali 
xodo  cap.  22.  ubi,  qui  virginem  nulli  desponsalain  abstinerc,  polesl  parens  jubere,  et  filius  tenelur 
viliaveril,  cogilur  eam  habere  uxorem,  si  palcr  parere.  El  licet  Iioc  etiam  sit  suo  modo  cogere,  et 
cam  darc  volucrit,  sin  ininus,  cogitur  saltem  do-  mclum  inculerc  morlis  aeternae:  non  tamen  pro- 
'^'"C.  plerca  Malrimonium  illud  dicerelur  coactum,   ne- 
Tertia  propositio:  Peccanl  filii  quando  sine  ju-    qne  irritum  esset;  quia  melus  ille  gehennae  non 
sta  ct  rationabili  caussa  parentibus  insciis,  vel    proprie  inculitur  ad  hoc,  ut  iste  uxorem  ducal;sed 
invitis  Matrimonia  contrahunl.  Dixi:  Sine  jusla    pcr  se  consequilur  praccepli  transgressionera. 
ct  rationabili  caussa,  quia  polesl  aliquando  fieri, 
ul  filius  non  peccet  inscio  palre  uxorcm  ducendo; 
quia  nimirum  crcdit  patrem  id  ratum  habilurum; 
el  boc  modo  Tobias  inscio  palrc  uxorcm  duxit.Po- 
lest  eliam  fieri,  ut  non  peccel  filius  invilo  patrc 
iixorem  ducendo.  ut  si  paler  injuste  prohibeat  fi- 
lium  a  conjugio;  vcl  caussa  majoris  dolis,  nonnisi 
indignam  mulierem,  aul  cliam  haerelicam  ei  dare 
velil.  Ut  plurimum  lamcii  peccanl  filii,cum  non  se- 
quunlur  iu  liac  re  parenlum   volunlalcm:  Nam  ut 
plurimum  parcnles  sunt  prudenliores,  neque  pe- 
riculum  esl  ul  filiis  male  consullum  velinl,cuni  eos 
naluralilcr  diliganl.  Praclerca  parenlum  est,  filiis 
prospicere;  cosque  dirigere;  ergo  filiorum  est,  si- 
nere  se  a  parenlibus  regi  ac  duci.   Et  habcmus  c- 
xempla  ac  leslimonia  in  Scripturis  perspicua.  Ge- 
nes.  cap.  24.  Isaac  acccpit  uxorom,  quam  paler  ei 
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