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Chapter 12: That the Matrimony of Unbelievers Can Be Loosed Even as to the Bond; and On a Matrimony Ratified but Not Consummated

Our translation, from the Latin of the Opera Omnia (Paris: Vivès, 1870–74), vol. III, De Sacramento Matrimonii, the fifth general controversy on the sacraments. The Latin source text is public domain; this English rendering is released with the site. Scripture quotations follow Bellarmine's Vulgate citations, rendered in Douay-Rheims wording where he quotes exactly. Click “Show the Latin” for the original (raw OCR of the scan; scanning errors remain — the scan itself is the authority).

The Fourth Controversy: On the Firmness of Matrimony

There follows the fourth controversy, which is on the firmness of Matrimony. Where it is to be observed at the beginning that one judgement must be made of the marriage of the faithful, another of the marriage of unbelievers; and again one of the marriage of the faithful ratified and not consummated, another of the marriage of the faithful ratified and consummated; and lastly one of the consummated marriage of the faithful as to separation, another as to divorce. From which four questions arise concerning the firmness of Matrimony; but the last is most proper to this place, and moreover very grave and difficult; therefore we shall touch the first three briefly.

The first question, then, on the marriage of unbelievers, will be very short. For that the marriage of unbelievers can be loosed even as to the bond, if one of the spouses is converted to the faith and the other will not live with him without injury to the Creator, is beyond controversy from the teaching of blessed Paul, 1 Corinthians 7: “But if the unbeliever depart, let him depart,” and so on; and from the teaching of the Church, cause 28, question 2, canon Si infidelis, and the chapter Quanto and the chapter Gaudemus, on divorces.

Nor does that stand in the way, “What therefore God hath joined together, let no man put asunder,” Matthew 19; nor that, “Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication,” and so on, in the same place; nor this, that the bond of Matrimony is not loosed on account of heresy, although heresy is a species of unbelief.

For to the first it must be answered that this Matrimony is not broken by man but by God, whose interpreter we have in the apostle Paul.

To the second Cajetan, in the commentary on chapter 7 of the first to the Corinthians, answers that Christ gave to husbands alone the liberty of putting away their wives for the cause of fornication, but not to wives of putting away their husbands; and that Paul spoke of a cause which is common to husband and wife, and meant this to be the conversion of one of the spouses from unbelief.

But this solution does not seem to satisfy the argument. For, first (as we shall show below), the Lord speaks of putting away as to bed, not as to the bond; and in that matter husband and wife are equal; for both the husband can leave an adulterous wife and the wife an adulterous husband.

Nor does Chemnitz rightly reconcile these places, who writes, in the second part of the Examination, page 1248, that Christ speaks of him who puts away unjustly, and Paul of him who is unjustly put away. For, as Augustine notes in the book On Adulterous Marriages, chapters 2 and 3, Paul not only permits the spouse deserted by the unbeliever to enter another Matrimony, but also permits him simply to put away the unbeliever, even if he is willing to live with him; for he only counsels, and does not command, that the believing spouse not put away the unbelieving spouse if he is willing to live with him; and therefore, if anyone puts away one willing to live with him, he does not sin against any precept. Moreover, if the unbeliever does not desert the believer, but will live with him with injury to the Creator, namely by constantly urging a return to unbelief and blaspheming Christ, certainly he can be put away by the believer, according to that saying, “He that hateth not father and mother, wife, children, and so on, for my sake,” Luke 14. This, then, is the sense of the Apostle: “If the unbeliever depart,” namely being unwilling to live together, or unwilling to do so without injury to the Creator, “let him depart,” and so on.

It must be said, then, with Augustine, book 1 On Adulterous Marriages, chapters 1 and 2, that Christ speaks of Matrimony between the faithful, Paul of Matrimony contracted between unbelievers; which Paul himself declares sufficiently. For when he had said, “I command, not I, but the Lord, that the wife depart not from her husband,” he adds: “For to the rest I speak, not the Lord. If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she consent to dwell with him, let him not put her away,” and so on. Where by “the rest” he understands those who contracted Matrimony before the faith, of whom the Lord had commanded nothing; of these, then, Paul gives counsel, that the husband not put away the unbelieving wife if she will live with him without injury to the Creator. But because this is a counsel, not a precept, therefore it is lawful also to put away the unbelieving wife, and most of all then if she will not live with him.

To the third it must be said that there is a great difference between marriages contracted in unbelief and marriages contracted after Baptism. For the former, although they are ratified and firm by their nature, yet are not sacraments, and therefore lack the chief reason of insolubility. But the latter are sacraments, and so have a twofold reason of insolubility. What, then, the Apostle taught about marriages contracted in unbelief ought not to be extended to marriages contracted after Baptism; and therefore, if one of the spouses turns to heresy and the other will not live with him without injury to the Creator, the Matrimony is not loosed as to the bond; not because heresy is not a species of unbelief, but because that Matrimony had been contracted after Baptism, and for that cause was a sacrament. And likewise, if one of Christian spouses becomes not only a heretic but even an apostate, a heathen, an atheist, yet the bond of Matrimony is never loosed, because it is a sacrament.

And hence is solved also the doubt which might arise: why, if a believing spouse will not live with a spouse, even a believing one, except with injury to the Creator, namely by constantly soliciting to evil, why, I say, the Matrimony cannot be loosed. For the cause has already been given: that such a Matrimony, contracted in the Church, is a sacrament.

Chapter 13. That a Matrimony Ratified but Not Consummated Is Loosed Even as to the Bond by Entrance into Religion

The second question, on the Matrimony of the faithful ratified but not consummated, has been treated by us in the second book On Monks, chapter 38. And so we have thought the reader should be sent back to it.

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CONTROVERSIA  IV. 
Be  Matrimonii  firmilale. 
c.\PUT  xir. 
Malrimoninm  inlidelium  solubile  csse,  cliim 
quoad  vinculum. 
Scquilur  conlrovcrsia  Ouarta,  quoc  cst  dc  3Iiilri- 
nionii  lirmilale.Ubi  est  initio  obscrvandum  ,  aliud 
judicium  cssc  (lebere  dc  conjugio  lidclium,  aliiid 
de  conjugio  inlnlelium:  el  rursus  aliud  dc  conju- 
gio  lidclium  rato  cl  non  consummalo,  et  aliud  dc 
conjugio  ndclium  ralo  et  consummalo  :  deniqnc 
aliud  de  conjugio  ndidium  coiisummato  quoad  di- 
vartium,  aliud  (juoad  rcpiiilium.  Ivx  quo  quntuor 
quaeslioncs  existunt  de  Malrimonii  nrmilatc;  sed 
uliima  cst  hujus  loci  inaximc  propria,  ct  praeterca 
gravis  admoclum  el  dirficilis:  ideo  priores  tros 
breviler  perslringcraus. 
UeLLAIOIINI.    V(»I.    III. 
Prima  igitur  quaeslio  dc  conjugio  infidelium  , 
brf.vissima  crit.  Conjiigium  cnim  inlidelium  solvi 
possc,  cliam  quoad  vinculnm  ,  si  alter  conjugum 
convertatur  ad  Hdcm,  ct  allcr  nolit  ci  cohabilarc 
siue  injuria  crcaloris:  extra  conlrovcrsiam  cst,  cx 
doctrina  b.  Pauli,  1.  Corinlh.  7.  Siinlidelis  discc- 
dit,  discedat  elc.  Et  cx  doclrina  Ecclesiac  28. 
quaest.  2.  can.  Siinfidclis,  ct  Ci\[^.Quanto,  el  cap. 
Gaudemus,  dd  divort. 
Neque  obstat  illud:  Quod  Deus  conjunxil,homo 
nonseparet.  Mlh.  11).  ncqiie  illud:'(//a  dimise- 
ril  uxorein  ,  excepta  caussa  furnicationis  etc. 
Ibidcm,  iieque  illud,  quod  proplcr  hacresim  non 
solvitur  vinculuin  Matrimonii,  cum  tamen  haeresis 
species  inndelitatis  sit. 
i^am  ad  Primum  rcspondcri  dcbel,!ioc  Malrimo- 
nium  non  dirimi  ab  homiuc,  sed  a  Deo  ,  cujus  in- 
lcrprclem  habemus  aposlolum  Pauhim. 
Ad  Secundum  Cajclonus  in  connncnt.  cap.  7. 
prioris  ad  Corinth.  rcspondct,  Christum  dedisse  li- 
bprlalem  solis  viris,  dimitlcndi,  caussa  foriiicatio- 
iiis,  uxores;  non  autcm  uxoribus  dimiltcndi  viros. 
Paulura  aulcm  loquulum  essc  de  caussa ,  quae  sit 
communis  viro  et  uxori,  ct  hanc  csse  voluisse  , 
convcrsioncm  alterius  coniugis  ab  infidclilale. 
Sed  haec  solulio  non  vidctur  salisfacerc  argu- 
mento.  Nam  in  primis  (ul  infra  oslcnsuri  sumus) 
Dominus  loquilur  de  dimissionc  quoad  Ihorum  , 
non  quoad  vinculum:  in  illa  aulem  re  parcs  sunt 
vir  et  uxor:  polcst  enim,  el  vir  uxorcm  adultcram, 
ct  uxor  virum  adulterum  relinquere. 
Sed  neque  haec  loca  recte  conciliat  Kemnilius, 
qui  scribil  in  2.  par.  cxamin.  pag.  1248.  Chrislum 
loqui  de  eo,  qui  dimittit  injusle,"Paulum  autem  de 
co  qui  injuste  dimitlitur.  Nam  ut  Augustiniis  nolal 
in  lib.  de  adulterinis  conjugiis,  cap.2.  ct  3.PauIus 
non  tantum  pcrmillit  conjiigi  dcscrto  ab  iiifidcli  , 
aliud  Malrimoniura  inire,  sed  eliain  permitlit  sim- 
plicilcr,  dimitterc  infidelom  ,  clinmsi  cohnbilare 
velit:  solum  enini  consulit,  non  aulem  praccipit, 
ut  conjux  fidclis  non  dimittal  conjugcm  iiifidclcm, 
si  is  vclit  cohabilarc;et  idco  si  quisdimiltat  volen- 
lcm  cohabilarc,  non  pcccat  conlra  iillnm  praecc- 
plum.  Praetcrea,  si  infidclis  non  descrat  fidclem  , 
sed  vclit  ci  cohabilare  cuin  injuria  crcaloris,  per- 
pcluo  scilicet  pcrsuadcndo  rcditum  ad  infidelila- 
tem,  et  Christum  blasphcmando,  cerle  poleril  a  fi- 
deli  dimitti,  juxta  illud:  Qui  non  odil  palrem  ,  el 
matrem,  uxorcm,  (ilios  etc.  propter  vic,  Luc.  l'i. 
Ilaec  igilur  esl  Apostoli  senlcnlia.  Si  inlldehs  di- 
scedil,  nimirum  nolons  coIiabitarc,aul  nolcns  sinc 
injiiria  creatoris,  discedat  clc. 
Dicenduin  cst  igiliir  cuin  Augiistiiio.  lih.  1.  dc 
adulteriiiis  conjugiis.  cap.  1.  et  2.  Clirisluin  lo^pii 
dc  Matrimonio  inler  ndelcs.Paiilum  dc  Jlatrimonio 
contraclo  inlcr  inlidclcs,  id  (luod  Piiiilus  ipsc  salis 
dcclarat.  N;im  cuin  dixissct:  Vraecipio.  non  erjo  . 
sed  Dominns,  tixorcm  a  viro  non  discedcrc,  siih- 
jiingil:  Caeteris  autem  ct/o  dico,non  Domiiius;  si 
quis  lui.l)Cl  iixorem  inliilclem  ,  ct  hacc  conscntit 
habitarc  cum  iilo,  non  diinillat  illamctc.Viln  pcr 
caeleros,intcIligileos,qui  Matrimoniuin  antc  lldcm 
conlraxcrunl,  dc  qiiihiis  Domimis  nihil  pracccpe- 
ral:  d(;  liis  crgo  Pauliis  (•onsilium  'd;il  ,    ul  vir  ikmi 
SOi 
hl".  SAi.llAMMMc»  MMUIMOMl 
(liniill.il  uxnioiu  iuliilcIiMU  .  si  oii  velil  coliiibilnrc 
siiie  iujuiia  iTtMluris.  Sod  quia  lioc  osl  rousilium, 
non  pniocoplmn;  iiloo  liocl  cliiini  (liMiillcrc  u\o- 
rcm  iniurclcm,  ct  lunc  nuiximc.  si  nolil  coli;il)i- 
l.irc. 
A(l  Tcrlium  tliccndum,  m;ij:jiuun  c.-jsc  discrimcn 
inlcr  coujui^iii  conlr;Ki;i  in  iutidcIiUilc.  cl  coujui*i;i 
conlr;icl;i  post  IJaplismum.  Priorii  ciiim  ,   clsi  r;ila 
sinl  cl  lirma  cx  iuilur;i  sua:  lamcn  siicramonla  non 
snnl.  cl  idco  dccsl  illis  polissim;i  ralio  insolubili- 
liilis.  Al  poslcriora,  sacr;niicula  suul ,   cl  proiiidc 
dupliccm  liiihciil  riilioniMii  insolubililiilis.  Qiu^xl  cr- 
£^0  .\posloIus  docuil  de  Malriiuoniis   in  inridolilaic 
conlraclis,  noii  didicl  cxlciidi  iul  Malrimonia  con- 
Ir.Kia  posl  Uaplisuuim:    cl   idcirco  si  altcr  conju- 
jium  couvcrlaiiir  ;>b  hacrcsi.  cl  allcr  nold  cohabi- 
tiirc  sine  injuria  creatoris  .    non  solvilur  M;ilrimo- 
nium  quoiid  vinculum.  non  rpiia  hacrcsis    non  sil 
spocies  iuti(Ielit;ilis  .  scd  qui;i  .M;ilriinouiuiu   illiid 
poi-t  Baplisuium  contraclum  fueral  cl  e;i  dc  caussa 
sacrniucutum  criil:  (i  similitcr  si  altcr   conjiif^iim 
(Ihrislianorum,  lial  uon  tantum  liacrelicus,  .seil  et- 
iam  aposlala,  cthnicus,  alheus  ,    tiimen  numquam 
solvitur  vinculum  Matrimonii  ,  quia  sacramenturn 
csl. 
El  liino  solvitur  eliain  dubitatio,  quae  nasci  pos- 
&el,  cur  vidcliccl  si  conjux  fidclis  nolil  cohabitaro 
cuin  conjiii:;e  etiam  Qileli.  nisi  cum  iujuria  crcato- 
ris,  cum  scilicct  perpcluo  ad  maluin  soUicitando, 
cur,  inquam  non  possil  Matrimonium  solvi?  caussa 
cnim  jam  rcddita  est,quod  cjusniodi  Matrimonium 
in  Ecclcsi;i  contractum,  sacramculum  sil. 
C.\PLT  .XIIl. 
IHalrimoiiiuin  raiinn  .  non  consummaium  ,  solvi 
eliam  quoad  vinculuni,  per  ingrcssum  in  rcli- 
gionem. 
.Mtera  quaeslio,  de  Matrimonio  fidclium  ralo  , 
non  autcni  consummato.  Iriictata  csl  a  nobis  in  2. 
lib.  dc  monachis,  cap.  .3S.  Ilaque  ad  eam  lectorcm 
rcmitlendum  putavimus. 
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